As you may have read in a previous post i made around a year ago it was about moving on and change about a situation- I shared a status which was brief and which i wouldn’t usually do but I believe as many people as possible need to here and see my status and remember you are not alone. Do what you need to do.
My status was – (as at the time it was a year ago)
‘A year ago today my path did make a change and for the better! To those who are worried, to those who care or those who are just plain nosy; my life now feels fabulous! I have two brilliant jobs which I love, an amazing family that always pick me up, supportive friends who I know are there and I will see more, and of course my rock Joe. This past year I have become stronger and I do each day, I have grown more than I thought, and learnt so much. I have created my own path, I now know what I need and what I want and this gets better each day. If you are someone that is always thinking about something that you want to change or are unhappy with something then just do it, just change it. Life is so short and you never know how happy you could be. Don’t let others damage or control your path… you create your own!’
I just wanted to recap this whole status this whole blog post as now it is two years that have passed and time has moved on.. I wanted to relate back to this status and express don’t be afraid to move onto new this and making your own happiness, and gaining new support, new friends, learning so much and expanding your world.
Ten things that have helped me from this change
1 I have learnt so much about myself what I need and what I want.. (2 years on – this is now even stronger I know EXACTLY what I want, need and want to do.)
2 I have made new supportive friends. (2 years on – I have got very close friends that will stick by me and know me the close are the best, a few is better than loads)
3 I have created a happy and healthy work environment which I want to attend each day. (2 years on – I work in a PA role which I adore and I’m currently on 6 weeks holiday!, my PT role is in my safe haven my home, and I get to choose which clients attend I love being my own boss)
4 I have achieved so much academically and created my own biusness. (2 years on – I am still study each day more and more courses.)
5 I have learnt to work hard and care what people think less. (2 years on – I care what my family and those close friends think not the world)
6 I have learnt to follow my heart and choose what I want not others. (2 years on – I do what I want not what others think of me)
7 I have learnt that people will always be jealous and always hate you for something don’t try to change them. (2 years on – leave them behind)
8 I have learnt to be myself whether people like you or not be honest to yourself. (2 years on – people will always hate you if they want to leave them behind.)
9 I have learnt to love those who deserve your love. (2 years on – keep these close only work on these and you will be loved and desired more)
10 I have learnt life has so much more to offer. (2 years on – close a box to open another)
Thank you for all your support, I believe everyone has their own path with so much to do and achieve…
I hope to do this again after three maybe four years and to see how much I change over time. As we grow older we learn we grow wiser. Change is good. And if it’s good staying the same is good also. Hope this makes sense. Have a wonderful Saturday. Support yourself.. be brave and make your life the best it can be..
Much Love J x